Add vLLM v0.18.1 source tree with KV transfer abort fix

third_party/vllm/ now tracked in git for direct patch management.
Based on vLLM v0.18.1 release with one patch applied:

  vllm/v1/core/sched/scheduler.py:
    Replace fatal assert with graceful skip when KV transfer callback
    arrives for an already-aborted request during PD disaggregated serving.

Future vLLM modifications should be made directly in third_party/vllm/
and committed normally. The patches/ directory is kept as documentation
of what changed from upstream.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 (1M context) <noreply@anthropic.com>

third_party/vllm/docs/models/extensions/fastsafetensor.md

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+Loading model weights with fastsafetensors
+===================================================================
+
+Using fastsafetensors library enables loading model weights to GPU memory by leveraging GPU direct storage. See [their GitHub repository](https://github.com/foundation-model-stack/fastsafetensors) for more details.
+
+To enable this feature, use the `--load-format fastsafetensors` command-line argument