Add vLLM v0.18.1 source tree with KV transfer abort fix

third_party/vllm/ now tracked in git for direct patch management.
Based on vLLM v0.18.1 release with one patch applied:

  vllm/v1/core/sched/scheduler.py:
    Replace fatal assert with graceful skip when KV transfer callback
    arrives for an already-aborted request during PD disaggregated serving.

Future vLLM modifications should be made directly in third_party/vllm/
and committed normally. The patches/ directory is kept as documentation
of what changed from upstream.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 (1M context) <noreply@anthropic.com>

third_party/vllm/requirements/build.txt

@@ -0,0 +1,12 @@
+# Should be mirrored in pyproject.toml
+cmake>=3.26.1
+ninja
+packaging>=24.2
+setuptools>=77.0.3,<81.0.0
+setuptools-scm>=8
+torch==2.10.0
+wheel
+jinja2>=3.1.6
+regex
+build
+protobuf >= 5.29.6, !=6.30.*, !=6.31.*, !=6.32.*, !=6.33.0.*, !=6.33.1.*, !=6.33.2.*, !=6.33.3.*, !=6.33.4.*