distributed: NCCL tensor-parallel primitives (TpContext + AllReduce)

New xserv-distributed crate: hand-written NCCL FFI, TpContext (one rank per
thread, bound to one GPU), and in-place BF16 AllReduce on the null stream so
it orders naturally with the model's kernels. 2-GPU AllReduce test included.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.7 <noreply@anthropic.com>

crates/xserv-distributed/Cargo.toml

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+[package]
+name = "xserv-distributed"
+version.workspace = true
+edition.workspace = true
+
+[dependencies]
+xserv-cuda = { path = "../xserv-cuda" }
+half.workspace = true