distributed: NCCL tensor-parallel primitives (TpContext + AllReduce)

New xserv-distributed crate: hand-written NCCL FFI, TpContext (one rank per
thread, bound to one GPU), and in-place BF16 AllReduce on the null stream so
it orders naturally with the model's kernels. 2-GPU AllReduce test included.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.7 <noreply@anthropic.com>

crates/xserv-distributed/build.rs

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+use std::env;
+
+fn main() {
+    let cuda_path = env::var("CUDA_HOME")
+        .or_else(|_| env::var("CUDA_PATH"))
+        .unwrap_or_else(|_| "/usr/local/cuda".to_string());
+
+    println!("cargo:rustc-link-search=native={cuda_path}/lib64");
+    // NCCL is typically installed as a system library.
+    println!("cargo:rustc-link-search=native=/usr/lib/x86_64-linux-gnu");
+    println!("cargo:rustc-link-lib=dylib=nccl");
+    println!("cargo:rustc-link-lib=dylib=cudart");
+}