kernels/cuda: paged-attention kernel, dispatch, pinned host memory

CUDA layer for the paged-KV + swap work:
- csrc: new paged_attention.cu plus updates across attention/gemm/norm/
  activation/embedding/reduce kernels and common.cuh.
- xserv-kernels: new dispatch module and kernel-binding updates.
- xserv-cuda: cudaMallocHost/FreeHost bindings + PinnedBuffer (host swap
  pool backing) and offset-aware D2H/H2D copies used to move KV blocks
  between the GPU pool and pinned host memory.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.7 <noreply@anthropic.com>

crates/xserv-cuda/src/ffi.rs

@@ -39,6 +39,7 @@ unsafe extern "C" {
         stream: CudaStream,
     ) -> i32;
     pub fn cudaMemset(devptr: *mut u8, value: i32, count: usize) -> i32;
+    pub fn cudaMemsetAsync(devptr: *mut u8, value: i32, count: usize, stream: CudaStream) -> i32;
 
     // --- Stream ---
     pub fn cudaStreamCreate(stream: *mut CudaStream) -> i32;