kernels/cuda: paged-attention kernel, dispatch, pinned host memory

CUDA layer for the paged-KV + swap work:
- csrc: new paged_attention.cu plus updates across attention/gemm/norm/
  activation/embedding/reduce kernels and common.cuh.
- xserv-kernels: new dispatch module and kernel-binding updates.
- xserv-cuda: cudaMallocHost/FreeHost bindings + PinnedBuffer (host swap
  pool backing) and offset-aware D2H/H2D copies used to move KV blocks
  between the GPU pool and pinned host memory.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.7 <noreply@anthropic.com>

csrc/common.cuh

@@ -48,3 +48,17 @@ __device__ __forceinline__ float block_reduce_max(float val) {
     if (warp_id == 0) val = warp_reduce_max(val);
     return val;
 }
+
+// --- Launch error checking (debug builds only) ---
+#ifdef NDEBUG
+#define CUDA_CHECK_LAST_ERROR() ((void)0)
+#else
+#include <cstdio>
+#define CUDA_CHECK_LAST_ERROR() do { \
+    cudaError_t err = cudaGetLastError(); \
+    if (err != cudaSuccess) { \
+        fprintf(stderr, "CUDA kernel launch error at %s:%d: %s\n", \
+                __FILE__, __LINE__, cudaGetErrorString(err)); \
+    } \
+} while(0)
+#endif