kernels/cuda: paged-attention kernel, dispatch, pinned host memory

CUDA layer for the paged-KV + swap work:
- csrc: new paged_attention.cu plus updates across attention/gemm/norm/
  activation/embedding/reduce kernels and common.cuh.
- xserv-kernels: new dispatch module and kernel-binding updates.
- xserv-cuda: cudaMallocHost/FreeHost bindings + PinnedBuffer (host swap
  pool backing) and offset-aware D2H/H2D copies used to move KV blocks
  between the GPU pool and pinned host memory.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.7 <noreply@anthropic.com>

csrc/reduce/softmax.cu

@@ -94,6 +94,7 @@ void launch_softmax_f32(const void* x, void* out, int rows, int cols, void* stre
     if (block < 32) block = 32;
     softmax_f32<<<rows, block, 0, (cudaStream_t)stream>>>(
         (const float*)x, (float*)out, cols);
+    CUDA_CHECK_LAST_ERROR();
 }
 
 void launch_softmax_bf16(const void* x, void* out, int rows, int cols, void* stream) {
@@ -101,6 +102,7 @@ void launch_softmax_bf16(const void* x, void* out, int rows, int cols, void* str
     if (block < 32) block = 32;
     softmax_bf16<<<rows, block, 0, (cudaStream_t)stream>>>(
         (const __nv_bfloat16*)x, (__nv_bfloat16*)out, cols);
+    CUDA_CHECK_LAST_ERROR();
 }
 
 }