fix: 12 bug fixes from comprehensive review — 51 tok/s verified on RTX 5090

P0 fixes (blocking usability):
- FIX-01: thread-local cuBLAS handle (was creating/destroying per matmul)
- FIX-16: EOS token no longer leaks into API responses
- FIX-17: max_seq_len configurable via --max-seq-len (default 2048, was hardcoded 256)
- FIX-18: max_tokens clamped to available seq space, prompt overflow returns 400

P1 fixes (bugs & performance):
- FIX-07: CachingAllocator wired into all hot paths (to_device, embedding, rope, concat)
- FIX-08: CudaDeviceProp buffer increased to 32KB for CUDA 12.9 safety
- FIX-09: tokenizer byte_fallback graceful degradation (was panic)
- FIX-19: causal mask uses -INFINITY instead of -1e9 (BF16 supports inf)
- FIX-20: LayerNorm rewritten to numerically stable two-pass algorithm
- FIX-21: min block size guard (32 threads) for LayerNorm/RMSNorm launches

P2 fixes (improvements):
- FIX-22: Option<GpuKVCache> + take() eliminates dummy KV cache allocations
- FIX-23: RoPE cache no longer artificially capped at 8192 positions

Verified on dash5 (RTX 5090): 51 tok/s batch=1, 74 tok/s 2-concurrent, 1.7-3.3x HF transformers.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 (1M context) <noreply@anthropic.com>

crates/xserv-kernels/src/embedding.rs

@@ -26,7 +26,7 @@ pub fn embedding(table: &Tensor, token_ids: &[u32]) -> Tensor {
             num_tokens * std::mem::size_of::<u32>(),
         )
     };
-    let mut ids_gpu = GpuBuffer::alloc(ids_bytes.len()).expect("alloc token_ids");
+    let mut ids_gpu = xserv_cuda::allocator::cached_alloc(ids_bytes.len()).expect("alloc token_ids");
     ids_gpu.copy_from_host(ids_bytes).unwrap();
 
     let out = Tensor::empty(&[num_tokens, hidden_size], table.dtype(), table.device());