Add flash_attention_sinks_bf16 prefill kernel that folds the per-head
attention sink into the softmax denominator (exactly as the decode sink
kernel) and supports an optional sliding-window mask matching HF gpt-oss.
Wire it through xserv-kernels (flash_attention_sinks) and use it in
GptOss prefill, replacing the post-hoc sink approximation for an exact
match against the reference math.
Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.8 <noreply@anthropic.com>